Chapter 15

2025/26

During my trip to India, my dad asked me to perform two good deeds to secure the Meta job, believing firmly in such superstitions. I, however, adhere strictly to cause and effect. Yet, to avoid disappointing my aging father, I humored his requests. I returned to London around New Year's, spending another week in Dubai along the way.

Later that month, I traveled to Berlin to visit friends. Meeting Nik, Mik, Dan, Jak, Son, and Pas was fantastic; having them all show up meant a lot. While Britain grew increasingly hostile toward immigrants, Berlin briefly felt like the place to be, reinforcing my view that London is a crowded city of a million lonely souls. I suppose the grass is always greener on the other side, and we spend our lives trying to cultivate our own patches.

The day I returned to London, Tia appeared in my Instagram feed. She had celebrated her birthday a few days prior, and the photos from her photoshoot popped up. I couldn't resist messaging her. She replied the next day, and before long, we were talking on the phone daily, drawing closer bit by bit.

Meanwhile, I was awaiting an official offer from Meta. I had aced all the interview loops. But if life had taught me anything, it's that you can't have everything you want all at once. Once again, I stood at a crossroads, forced to choose between my relationship and my career, knowing I’d have to pay for one with the other while secretly yearning for both.

To my surprise, Meta delivered an offer, and I accepted without hesitation.

The rest is history.

This Valentine’s Day, as I write these words, that angel is right beside me, and I’ve transitioned to bigger milestones in my career.

Was it a coincidence that my dad’s superstitions came true? Or was it simply the culmination of relentless effort? I still don't know. But that January fundamentally altered my trajectory, making this story worth telling.

True story!

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A new baseline was set: 8/10. The sheer toll it took to reach this tier was staggering.

Relationship-wise: My love life flourished. Tia arrived at precisely the right moment; she truly is my lucky charm. I began rebuilding bridges with long-lost friends, relatives, and colleagues.

Health-wise: I brought my body back to peak physical condition through regular workouts and serious yoga. I ate clean, celebrated two smoke-free years, improved my sleep hygiene, and cultivated genuine positivity and a newfound sense of confidence.

Finance-wise: I leveraged my life tracker app to map out retirement scenarios, setting a concrete target to become a dollar millionaire by 2030 and establishing the automated systems to get me there.

Career-wise: I was on the cusp of joining Meta, while my venture @zynedigital thrived alongside @webdeepdive.

Home-wise: I celebrated two years as a London homeowner, and the timing couldn't have been more perfect to invite Tia in.

Travel-wise: I was traveling at a sustainable cadence—if anything, I wanted to scale it back.

Entertainment-wise: I was sharpening my chess game, reading consistently, and occasionally writing and speaking.

Algorithmic Living was finally bearing fruit.

Yet one major source of anxiety remained: my UK residency status. I was 3.5 years into my five-year clock when I left Bumble. Given the turbulent tech climate, and with only a little over a year left until settlement, I figured my new role would safely carry me across the finish line in 2026. However, trusted advisors urged caution against changing ships mid-stream. I was acutely aware of the shifting political winds regarding UK immigration, knowing the incoming Labour administration would inevitably enact changes impacting my status. Consequently, I kept my immigration lawyer, Rus, on standby to execute a Global Talent Visa application if emergencies arose. But because I was joining Meta, I wanted to bank that pedigree on my resume first, holding the visa application as a worst-case parachute and pushing it to the absolute wire. Rus understood the assignment implicitly.

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Trip to Barcelona

People need to understand that every decision I made during this period carried uncertain and high-stakes consequences.

What was my future with Tia? It was a budding cross-border relationship, and we barely knew each other. Was this destined to be another failure? Could we bridge our cultural divides? She was from Ukraine, had never held a passport, and had never set foot outside her homeland. The war erected immense logistical hurdles; she couldn't easily leave, and traveling into a war zone myself was wildly imprudent, especially with flights grounded. How could this possibly work?

What about my future with Meta? Was the timing right? Would they rescind the offer? Would I perform well?

Would I keep my home? Or would I be forced to fallback to India, Berlin, or Dubai?

Should I pivot and focus entirely on scaling my business?

Were my UK property and US stock investments sound? Would geopolitical conflicts, AI-driven layoffs, or macroeconomic shocks wreck my financial architecture?

Even though my life metrics looked solid on paper, a storm of uncertainties raged in my mind. Exotic getaways served primarily as escapism—fleeting relief from mounting pressures.

With a cloud of doubt looming overhead, what choice did I have? I had to squeeze lemonade out of whatever lemons life lobbed my way. At times, I could only laugh at the sheer absurdity of my predicaments.

Life forced me to go all-in, hunting for answers because surrender was never an option. If it cost me everything in the process, so be it; I had to work with the hand I was dealt. And my hand always required fighting through monumental obstacles to reach what I wanted.

A lifetime of toil. I realized I either accepted the struggle or succumbed to it.

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In April 2025, just before stepping into Meta, I traveled to Athens. I tried arranging for Tia to meet me there, but she faced fierce familial resistance. I used the week instead for introspection, immersing myself in Greek mythology while staying near the Acropolis.

Having studied Stoic philosophy extensively, I found profound solace in its principles. My life demanded absolute resilience across every front, and Athens felt like the ancestral home of that mindset. I wanted to walk mentally in the footsteps of Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, and Alexander. The trip served as psychological armor for the grueling year ahead.

My all-knowing brother recounted how Alexander the Great’s forces pushed all the way to India before halting out of fear of the unknown, and how Alexander later delivered the famous Opis Mutiny speech to his rebellious troops in modern-day Baghdad. I looped a YouTube recording of that speech like music—it was that inspiring.

After exhausting his attempts at the UPSC exams, my brother had taken the reins of @zynedigital. Since I couldn't run operations while onboarding at a new job, and we had active clients in the UK and UAE to service, he stepped up. He was also the only person with zero conflicts of interest, making him the natural choice.

As I noted earlier, even with an 8/10 life score, massive vulnerabilities remained—chiefly, my precarious UK immigration status.

Worst case, I could have liquidated my home, cashed out my investments, and retired comfortably in India. But walking away after contributing a decade of tax and toil to Europe would have been a heartbreaking waste. Hence, I resolved to hold the line until mid-2026 to secure official residency before making drastic moves, though an itch to break free and scale my business full-time grew stronger by the day.

Alternatively, I could have leaned on Rus to fast-track the Global Talent Visa. But with a prestigious tech job incoming, I preferred holding that card in reserve for a genuine emergency.

Then, I walked through the doors at Meta.

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April 2025: Joining Meta

The commute was a grueling three-leg journey: down to London Bridge, across to King's Cross, followed by a long stretch of walking to the office. I appreciated the catered breakfast, but the work itself centered on Legal Tech, interfacing heavily with US teams.

My immediate impression was disheartening. Rather than feeling like an elite, cutting-edge startup, the environment mirrored an offshore development center (ODC) in Bangalore. Being tethered to legacy enterprise systems like Salesforce instantly killed my enthusiasm. The broader web development ecosystem had surged far ahead, and tinkering with archaic tooling drained the joy from my craft. I realized that the romanticized allure of FAANG had faded; today, smaller, agile companies—like GitHub—were building far superior products.

It wasn't where I belonged. The obsessive chase to crack Big Tech ended right there. Yet, rather than quitting precipitously, I committed to making the best of it and finding stability.

I paused my gym routines, funneling all spare energy into work and Tia. On weekends, I burned the candle at both ends, building @zynedigital and @webdeepdive.

Tia, back in Ukraine, kept me tethered through endless late-night phone marathons after work, talking from her kitchen as she embraced a night-owl schedule.

Closing the physical gap between us meant navigating a logistical nightmare: either I risked entering a war-torn Ukraine, or she secured a passport, jumped national borders, and obtained a UK tourist visa—while I simultaneously navigated EU Schengen restrictions. Turkey emerged as our only viable neutral ground. But for Tia, simply leaving Ukraine meant surviving intense border interrogations amidst active conflict.

I kept asking myself why destiny had entangled my life with someone facing such insurmountable walls. Yet every major milestone in my life had always hidden behind a massive barrier. This was no different.

I decided to stare down the risk and plan a journey straight into Ukraine.

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May 2025: The Journey Toward Ukraine via Poland

Armed with an expiring Schengen visa and a newly secured Ukrainian entry permit, I prepared for the unthinkable. Online forums offered terrifying accounts of foreign travelers entering the active war zone—some coerced into joining Russian ranks. The paranoia of suffering a similar fate crossed my mind, but I accepted the risk, figuring it would at least make for a tragic, cinematic end to my story.

The itinerary was simple: spend a few days in Krakow, take a train to Przemyśl near the border, assess the security climate, and catch a connecting train to Lviv where Tia would meet me for a day before returning to Poland. Lviv sat in the relative safety of western Ukraine, though no city was truly safe.

Three distinct outcomes loomed: getting detained at the Polish-Ukrainian border for the sheer lunacy of an Indian citizen traveling into a war zone for leisure; clearing customs without incident; or stumbling into a worst-case trap. I mapped contingencies for every single scenario.

Standing at the threshold in Poland, moments before boarding the final train to Lviv, I made the hardest call of my life. The stakes were catastrophic—not just for me, but for everyone who depended on my stability. Venturing into a battered nation at war for personal reasons ultimately felt morally unjustifiable. With heavy resolve, I turned back.

Tia was heartbroken, but she understood.

That left us with one final, rational path: Tia needed to quit her job, secure a clean passport, relocate temporarily to Poland, and rendezvous with me in Turkey.

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Securing a passport inside Ukraine was surprisingly straightforward, but her mother fiercely disapproved of our connection and confiscated the document. Wanting to respect familial boundaries while honoring Tia's autonomy, I found myself in a tough spot—I abhorred deceit, yet orthodox parental control left few options.

Driven by determination, Tia ultimately reported the passport stolen, obtained a replacement in secret, and engineered a grand cover story about securing employment in Poland to justify her first international exit.

Naturally, I harbored deep reservations. The moral weight of deception and the sheer volume of failure points troubled me, but Tia was resolute.

We consulted contacts who had fled the war to map out the transit logistics. Backed by a friend already residing in Poland, Tia navigated grueling border checks that dragged buses out for over a day, successfully reaching Krakow. I had booked an Airbnb for her month-long stay within her 90-day EU visa-free allowance. The plan was fluid: she would look for work, evaluate a longer-term stay in Europe, or join me on tourist visas depending on how the pieces fell.

On May 30, she touched down safely in Krakow.

On June 1, guiding her via video call through her first-ever airport navigation while I rushed through London Gatwick to catch my own flight, she boarded her inaugural international flight to Turkey. I landed precisely on time to receive her at baggage claim. ❤️

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Tia entered my life at a critical juncture. The crushing weight of post-breakup loneliness and societal pressures had begun exacting a severe mental toll, threatening to derail my hard-fought systems. She arrived like an anchor.

Yet nothing about our union was easy. While we possessed the financial means to travel, we remained at the mercy of bureaucratic gatekeepers—me trapped by an Indian passport, and her locked inside a heavily bombed homeland.

Through it all, her resolve was unshakeable. I never coerced her; I gave her complete autonomy to make her own choices, ensuring my doors were always open should she ever wish to walk away. I wanted my presence in her life to be an unadulterated value-add, not a cage. Having witnessed my mother's struggles within a patriarchal framework, and watching Lin fight to break free from an oppressive marriage, I swore never to replicate those dynamics. Tia had her own independent journey; I was merely grateful to be a co-passenger for a season.

Our maiden meeting in Antalya that June was a make-or-break crucible. Having visited many times before, I knew the city inside out. By the time the week concluded, we were entirely intertwined. She returned to Poland, I returned to London, and we repeated the cadence the following month.

Eventually, Tia confessed everything to her mother, who—after much deliberation—accepted our relationship. Tia even taught me essential Ukrainian phrases so I could speak fragments of her native tongue. For the first time in my life, someone introduced me as their son-in-law, lol.

Back in London, my workload at Meta intensified, but I kept my discipline intact—never missing a session at @webdeepdive while handing off @zynedigital operations smoothly to my brother.

Page 97 A recap of where things stood in July 2025.

I finally met Tia in Turkey after getting her to quit her job and move to Poland. I was determined to make it work this time, taking it as my personal responsibility to support her through the transition. The plan was for her either to find employment there or attempt a move to the UK on a tourist visa. However, I was almost certain that lacking a job and fleeing a war zone would result in an immediate rejection—especially since her US visa had been denied for the very same reasons just days prior. Unsure of our next steps, we decided to consult an immigration lawyer.

Meanwhile, I entered my final year leading up to UK permanent residency. My path—coming to the UK in 2016 and 2017, relocating to Germany in 2019, and returning to the UK in 2021—had proven detrimental to my timeline, but I refused to give up permanent settlement after years of toil and heavy tax contributions. Reaching June 2026 safely with a sponsored job was critical, particularly as constant industry layoffs and the AI boom stoked my anxiety.

My work at Meta began heating up, but my heart simply wasn't in it. There were days I wanted nothing more than to quit. I kept my lawyer, Rus, posted on my situation, continuing to build and strengthen my Global Talent Visa evidence while waiting for the right moment.

My brother took over running @zynedigital under my guidance, keeping any profits generated after expenses as his salary.

Finances were burning down fast. UK inflation had peaked, everything was expensive, I was supporting both Tia and my brother, and I was heavily investing in @zynedigital's growth through digital marketing. I made big money, but I spent even bigger—compounded by a relentless travel schedule.

At @webdeepdive, my long-term mentee Sat proved to be the absolute best choice to lead sessions. If there was one person who never missed, never offered petty excuses, and was never late, it was him.

All in all, I was staring down an extremely fragile, anxious, risky, and high-stakes year ahead.

Page 98 I’m not sure if these words do justice to the sheer anxiety I was carrying. If not for my brother’s steady moral support, I honestly don’t know how I would have managed.

With Tia’s US visa denied, we sought out a renowned immigration lawyer to explore getting her into the UK. For reasons that still escape me, it didn’t occur to me at the time to use Rus—whom I was already retaining for my Global Talent Visa—because I wrongly assumed he didn't handle tourist cases. We went instead with a lawyer from a different firm who presented two grim options: a Standard Visitor Visa or a Marriage Visitor Visa, provided we could prove a genuine relationship. Our chances looked bleak.

Before taking that step, Tia and I had several raw conversations about our future. We realized that if our relationship was genuine, there was no logical barrier to making it legally binding via a civil partnership. Civil unions offer all the legal security of marriage minus the grand production. After a long, hard look at ourselves, we decided to go for it.

We were certain we weren't doing it merely for a visa; when we asked ourselves if this was truly what we wanted out of life, the answer was a resounding yes.

To secure the visa, we had to prove our relationship was authentic and that we intended to form a civil partnership upon approval. While couples typically needed to demonstrate a minimum two-year history, six months sufficed for long-distance relationships under our circumstances.

Compiling the proof was an exhaustive exercise: ceremony booking receipts, records of my financial support, chat screenshots, trip photographs, and even my conversations with her mother. We also had to prove she would leave the country immediately following the ceremony.

I held zero hope of approval. Yet, to my absolute astonishment, they granted her a six-month visitor visa spanning September to March, with our civil partnership scheduled for February.

After months of grueling struggle, Tia finally arrived in London in September 2025.

Page 99 Thus began our six-month chapter together in London. The plan was straightforward: complete the civil partnership and have her depart by March. Due to visitor visa restrictions, she couldn't simply extend or switch statuses internally; she had to exit the country and return on a dependent visa.

Having learned hard lessons from the past, I was determined to pour everything into this relationship. I made sure Tia felt free, happy, and secure. We did everything together, especially enjoying cooking, despite our vastly different palates and the inevitable cultural clashes we navigated with maturity.

Work, however, was exceptionally hectic. My role demanded intense focus across US time zones. I realized that corporate obsession is a young man's game; I might have crushed this role five or six years prior, but with my current life commitments, it felt unsustainable. Once again, I faced a stark choice between career and life, realizing that the only thing worth obsessing over professionally was my own business, not an employer's bottom line.

Reaching a tipping point with where the company was headed, I knew I had to make a change. But quitting a job while on a sponsored visa carried severe consequences:

I had 60 days to find a new job or leave the country.

I was only 8 months away from qualifying for permanent residency.

The job market was brutally competitive.

Our impending civil partnership hinged on my stability.

Tia's return to London depended entirely on it.

I faced selling or renting out my home.

We had zero backup plans if forced out of the country, as neither of us was ready to relocate to each other's home countries.

The stress was agonizing. Yet it dawned on me that the only way through paralyzing stress is to walk directly into the fire. Humans possess an innate survival instinct, and sometimes you have to force a result by backing yourself into a corner.

And so, I quit what I once considered my dream job.

Now, my greatest challenge was ensuring I didn't regret it.

Page 100 Walking away from Meta was brutal. It was a company I had dreamed of working for since graduation. But the reality of the role shattered the illusion; I found zero satisfaction in checkbox metrics and corporate politics, craving instead the freedom to build my own creations.

Concurrently, the UK political climate regarding immigration was turning increasingly toxic. Following the US lead, anti-immigrant sentiment surged, fueled by viral protests in Canada and Ireland. Media outlets relentlessly scaremongered about asylum seekers crossing the Channel in dinghies and being housed in five-star hotels at taxpayer expense.

Then came the narrative surrounding legal immigrants. Millions had arrived legally under the previous government's open-door policy—dubbed the "Boriswave"—and were projected to become eligible for residency and state benefits starting in 2026, supposedly straining public infrastructure. In response, a fresh crackdown was engineered under new Home Secretary Shabana Mahmood, who proposed extending the residency requirement to 10 years for everyone unless tied to high salaries and steep tax brackets. While my personal timeline wasn't impacted by that specific adjustment, the broader strategy was glaringly obvious.

Scaremongering is an ancient political tool used to push unpopular agendas. Illegal immigration served as the smoke screen; squeezing out legal immigrants was the mechanism; retaining political power was the ultimate goal.

Nations want transient contributors who pay into the system and depart. The ideal immigrant is one who arrives as a student, endures a decade of corporate servitude on employer-tied visas, pays every penny of tax, never claims public funds, leaves family behind, lives in a cramped, overpriced London flat without a personal life, and exits quietly right before qualifying for residency.

Page 101 Having Tia by my side was a lifeline. Quitting a sponsored job in the UK leaves you with a ticking 60-day clock, turning my exit from Meta into a high-stakes gamble. Yet, shedding that toxic pressure brought an immediate sense of relief.

With the extra bandwidth, I accelerated development at @zynedigital, transforming it from an agency into an AI-powered enterprise. I mentored a small team in India, stepping fully into the role of an entrepreneur building products and creating jobs. I refused to scale for vanity metrics; growth had to be organic, driven by genuine utility rather than hollow LinkedIn influencer hype. Our team built a suite of AI tools designed for daily life, starting with Hone—a coding mentor tool I conceptualized for myself. The work caught the attention of Web Summit Qatar, which invited me and two team members to Doha to pitch investors. Though the product was early-stage, I jumped at the opportunity and passed the selection interview.

Meanwhile, I carved out quality time for Tia. With our civil partnership slated for February, we gave notice to the council in November. I invested heavily in her independence, encouraging her to take up photography and music lessons. We explored the city together, frequented bookstores and IKEA, and dreamed of getting a pet once my residency locked in.

Simultaneously, I hit the job market hard, hunting for a smaller sponsored role to carry me across the May residency finish line. Without sponsorship, my legal right to remain evaporated. Jobs were painfully scarce, and the pressure mounted.

Recognizing the closing window, it was finally time to pull the trigger on the Global Talent Visa. With only six months left to residency, I picked up the phone and called Rus.

Page 102 This phase was equal parts terrifying and exhilarating. Even with confidence in my ability to land a role, the 60-day deportation countdown hung over us like a guillotine. Honestly, I would have been fine returning to India; it would have given me the unencumbered freedom to scale @zynedigital full-time. But what about my home? What about the residency I was agonizingly close to securing? And most importantly, what about Tia? She had uprooted her life for me; asking her to relocate to India was out of the question. Securing that residency was non-negotiable, and I briefly regretted pulling the plug on Meta.

Yet I was immensely fortunate to have built a diversified financial portfolio that covered monthly bills independently. Had I faced this crisis five years prior, the outcome would have been disastrous.

Looking back, everything seemed orchestrated with uncanny precision: why I spent two decades as a web engineer, why I built personal utility apps just as AI matured, why @zynedigital emerged, why my brother's UPSC path redirected him to run the company as my greatest mental anchor, why past relationships dissolved to make room for Tia against impossible odds, why I remained self-sufficient, why I walked away from Meta right before Web Summit Qatar came calling.

Weren’t all these synchronicities proof that a guardian angel was steering my ship? These unrelated events unfolded with immaculate timing for a larger purpose. That is precisely why this story needed to be written.

Page 103 I had never truly felt the sting of unemployment until then. To complicate matters, UK visa rules barred me from traveling internationally between sponsorships, and surviving required leaning heavily on my personal savings.

With our civil partnership scheduled for February 2026, I wanted Tia to be entirely certain of her choice—to know my roots, my family, my culture, and my world inside out before we made it official. And I wanted my parents to meet her properly.

Quitting Meta was a massive gamble, and second-guessing myself compounded the chaos: arranging a civil partnership, funding Tia's relocation to London, watching my visa clock run down, racing to secure a new job, booking international flights, coordinating dual visa approvals, timing hotel stays, and ensuring my family welcomed her warmly—all in strict chronological sequence without a single point of failure. A hiccup anywhere along the chain would have shattered everything.

The financial bleed was staggering—visas, legal retainers, flights, hotel bookings, team salaries, and event organization while unemployed drained my reserves fast. Only my brother knew the full extent of the crisis, quietly sacrificing a portion of his salary to help me weather the storm.

With days left on my visa countdown, I secured a role at Depop. Though it paid slightly less than Meta, it achieved my primary objective: bridging me safely to June 2026 to secure permanent residency and pivot permanently to my own ventures. The sponsorship transition succeeded, averting disaster. With the emergency averted, I planned an impromptu trip to India via Dubai, giving Tia her first taste of the Middle East during a week-long stopover.

Consequently, I put the Global Talent Visa application back on hold, updating Rus as the immediate necessity faded.

Page 104 After a week in Dubai, we headed home to Kerala. It was the first time I was bringing a partner home, and uncertainties loomed. Tia was understandably nervous; this was her fifth country in as many months—from fleeing Ukraine to Poland, meeting in Turkey, moving to London, traveling to Dubai, and now landing in India. That is an immense amount of culture shock for anyone to absorb.

I wanted her to experience my homeland and my people firsthand. Announcing a civil partnership purely over a video call felt hollow, and visiting her family in Ukraine remained an impossibility due to the war.

There was another, more pragmatic driver: amid rising anti-immigrant sentiment across the West, I wanted Tia to intimately know the place we might eventually be forced to call home if things went sideways in Europe.

Of all the hotels I’ve experienced globally, the Hyatt Regency in Trivandrum—just a stone's throw from my parents' home—stands out as exceptional. Its rooms echoed the aesthetic of my Athens retreat, but the food was absolute gold. Cuisine is undeniable proof of a nation's history; no wonder ancient Romans traded troves of gold for Travancore spices.

While Tia attracted the occasional curious stare from local men, Kerala's benchmark for safety is unmatched in India. She felt completely secure accompanied by my brother and me. We spent our days exploring the city, and she was captivated when local boutique staff eagerly gathered around to help her drape a traditional saree with genuine warmth and care.

For the first time in over 35 years, our family circle expanded with a new member. We wished the trip had been longer. That week was perhaps the happiest of my life, reinforcing a fundamental truth: life isn't merely about accumulating wealth or climbing corporate ladders; it's about sharing happiness with people you love.

Page 105 We closed out Christmas 2025 on a soaring high.

It had been an exhausting yet deeply rewarding year. Tia and I were firmly entrenched in each other's worlds. Against staggering odds, we had accepted one another, our families had embraced the union, and the government had approved her legal entry. The probability of failure at the start of the year had been punishingly high. Had either of us flinched at any critical juncture, the entire structure would have collapsed. Yet here we stood, weeks away from making our relationship legally binding ahead of Valentine’s Day.

After stumbling through the fallout of quitting Meta, I had scrambled and successfully landed a new sponsor just before the deportation deadline.

Our company’s invitation to showcase at Web Summit in Doha validated that our entrepreneurial bets were landing in the right territory.

With permanent residency arriving in May, I could finally spot the finish line of a marathon that began in 2011. Looking back across the entire arc—clearing 18 college exams, starting from absolute zero, navigating relocations across Indian cities, pushing through athletic injuries and fitness renewals, crossing international borders, recovering from past heartbreaks, absorbing global perspectives, shedding my working-class insecurities, surviving hundreds of high-pressure interviews, accumulating and risking capital, buying a home, cracking Big Tech, finding my life partner, facing the brink of deportation, battling immigration lawyers, and supporting my family—I realized I was thoroughly battle-tested.

It was just a matter of pushing through the final five months until total freedom. Yet, bone-tired from a nearly twenty-year grind, I leaned back on one of my foundational rules: When your legs are tired, run with your heart.

2026 promised to be the defining year of my life. But I knew better than anyone: it wasn’t over until it was actually over.